Does something reach a point whereby it becomes to much, to insane to waste time with? Why is it you talk through a topic enough times before and yet the same issue is constantly brought back up time and time again. No particular reason for it, except she is not trusting enough in me to take the answer as it was offered before.

When how can you love a person if you have never met them in person and learned about them on a personal level, Spent time with them and learned about them by being with them.

People in this world, have an infinite potential to love many not just one, and yet the idea that is shared and clarified, instead of limitting this “love” to only one person when you have not even met them in person.

So being that the case why is it still the same topic is brought up time and time again, there is a point where it becomes to much for a person to deal with. In particular when you expect that it could be more then that but cannot make that decision until you know who they are actually, beyond the front that is often put up, not to mention the anonymity of the internet to be whatever you choose for better or worst.

So how is it that such a question is constantly presented when it has already been spoke of before and ends the same with arguments and battles. If this same topic comes up to many times it is a red flag, that there is to many jealous factors.

A relationship cannot survive if it is constantly, being challenged and put on the line, it just seems to me that at that point it is to much to deal with and at that same point there must be some changes put in order to make it different. There is a point where the jealousy can and will tear up a relationship internally and otherwise. A relationship that is not based on trust or is not working really must be stopped before it gets to be to much.

On that point, to keep a relationship stable there must be that trust, but the trust in and of itself is difficult because there is such distance between the two. Few have survived and done well even at distance, but how can it work if it is constantly a result of jealousy.

How can it work if the girl in the relationship that should flow both ways, constantly has trust issues? For the man in this same relationship it is to much for him to deal with. Seems to me that if you want a relationship to work you should be trusting of the parties involved without that a relationship cannot work.

The point being a relationship is a two way road, and if one keeps trying to direct it one way there is more trouble then it is worth. Why is it a man cannot love others, it seems that is not a healthy relationship, what do you think? Share your thoughts in the comments.

Zabriskie’s home burglarized

By VeloNews.com

Posted Feb. 24, 2009

While the Web-based cycling community was all a-Twitter over the recent theft and return of Lance Armstrong’s time trial bike, another cyclist has suffered a bigger loss of personal property, but did not discover it until he returned from the recent Amgen Tour of California.

Salt Lake City Police have issued an appeal for the public’s help in recovering items stolen in a burglary at the home of Garmin-Slipstream’s David Zabriskie.

According to police, the break-in occurred while Zabriskie was in California for the recent Amgen Tour.

Police also issued a partial list of items stolen and asked for help in their recovery, particularly if any turn up in local pawnshops or on eBay.

Among those items stolen from Zabriskie’s home are:

• Black 2008 Subaru Outback, Utah plate A189NC
• Black 2006 Toyota Scion, Utah plate 094VWM
• Giro D Italia Race Medal (approx. 6″ circumference)
• Olympic Seiko watch
• Beijing Olympic ring (silver) with initials “DZ” engraved ($4,000)
• Olympic Time Trial Bike, plus 12 other bikes (combined value of $100,000)
• Cervelo (black/red) bike frame - team issued ($5000)
• Tag Heuer watch ($6,000)
• Bose Speaker/Receiver System ($15,000)
• Sony 52″ flat screen TV ($4,000)
• Two Mac Books and one Mac desktop, plus hard drive ($8,000)
• A pair of Space legs, a recovery compression system for legs ($5,000)
• 7 Marvel sideshow statues ($11,000)

According to police, the Marvel sideshow statues are distinctive in that they stand two- to three feet tall and are very heavy. The stolen statues were of: “Hellboy” pistol figurine, “Ash”Army of Darkness, “Tomb Raider” Lara Croft, “The Punisher,” “Alien,” “Ironman” Limited Edition, and a “Gears of War” character.

Anyone with any information on this burglary or the location of the items is asked to call the Tips for Cash line at 799-INFO (4636). Please reference case #09-32767.

via VeloNews

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What a day it has been - the hours they have passed and the morning has started - and after a night of stress, only to see the same the next day. Is a relationship worth that much pain. To suddeneley become aware that someone who you thought cared for you has been out and about finding all she can to discredit you. Not naming the source, who is suddenely this de facto expert on who you are. What in the f**k is that about?

Suddenly, words of discredit, insults on character putting me down based on partial arguments, or simply words that were once said. Not even directed at me in the first place, and yet then turned about as if that was already the case, as if one had told that you, when it was not even remotely connected.

And to use conversations from the past in relation to that false assumption, and use what is not even connected as evidence to that supposed conclusion. How is it that once you thought there was love soon you learned there never was.

This person making claim to be trusting all the awhile going behind your back to find evidence to support their false conclusions. So they can make an attempt to support their flawed argument, even though it is false and wrong.

What difference does it make, is love only a word or does it mean more then that? Because it seems if there is more to it, such attempts at supporting a false argument would never occur.

The problem is then, that to put a comment on your profile is an attempt to state claim to what you are hurting at that time, only because you want to find evidence to the contrary of what is truth.

I made a mistake perhaps, to give you one more chance, to give you one more opportunity to show you truly loved me. It was a mistake, to ever go from there, as it would only end the same. Without trust there can be nothing with nothing there cannot be a relationship.

So easy to speak, what you want to hear, so easy to say what you think they want to hear. True honesty, which should be an important part a relationship, if there is to be one.

In closing, in the world today, we must all be careful, to never get to caught up in a relationship, that did not ever exist. I made my mistake and hopefully learned from it, perhaps in this article you will also take the steps for the change you really need in your life. Or perhaps nothing, and this is only words on a screen. The choice is yours, what will you do with it.

Will you learn by experience as I have had to or instead take the words in this post to heart and remember what has been said?

Why is it sometimes what seems to have lasted for years ends so abruptly? Was it simply a passing phase a time of transition, what happens when such a thing seems to fail? I have posts on the journey in love that can be found at a site which at one point was meant for one person created and maintained for that particular being, two years it seemed we were supposed to be together but in one night it seemed all that came crashing down. Life happened perhaps or did the feelings just go away? I really wonder sometimes what is the story with that, but in that night many a tear fell but was it worth the pain if it could end so quickly? Many times before a breakup - a break apart and yet often it would be healed and the connection reestablished, until one particular point in time, it was broken and this time it seemed it would never be reconnected again. Have you ever had that experience, had to go through such pain and such loss?

I am sure I am not the only one but on that night I figured it had to be the end, but so easy to say and so much more difficult to keep too. Simply meaning that loss happens, and through that pain that most certainly accompanies that, the choice must be made to remove all that was once known, from visual stimuli to anything that represents who they were, or who you thought the infamous “we” were. I had to do that in that night when the tears fell, all the pictures all the messages, deleted destroyed in an attempt to let go and move on, so easy to say much more difficult to do. I thought I had removed all trace and then I look back to see a collection of photos seemed to still reside in a long forgotten place. Is it a sign to remember or is it the last step to completely remove any physical trace?

I figure at some point it must be done, forgotten about and let go, if ever they return to take a close look at it and realise if it is worth dealing with one more time, as the person has not changed no matter the tale they may tell. Things go in cycles after all, the problem is these cycles at some point must be stopped, the process discontinued one last time. In that last time we each must take the steps to make a difference to let go and grow. Never easy but it must be done, and so I shall, as it seems once again the end has been reached but when will the end be the last one?